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Stopping Oneself from Porn & Masturbation.

Submitted by Anonymous on Mon, 06/08/2015 - 19:37

Dear Alim,

I am a muslim but not a devoted and god fearing one. Over the years I have been addicted to pornography and followed by masturbation. lately i have also started veiwing web cams and giving shows. I am repentant and want to stop these evil acts. I want the fear of Allah deep inside me and want to become a devoted muslim praying five times a day.

Please help me

Steps of Spiritual Journey

Submitted by Anonymous on Fri, 05/29/2015 - 11:46


According to Hadith,in which one Imam(as) said about rooh that its centre is brain.would that means aql or intellect in which a person is taught a right path by logic.and this nafs also takes guidance from it?

Is this sequence of getting knowledge for getting marifat of God right?

1)intellect use

2)fitrat and marifat e nafs and comparison between the two.

3)Adal (nafs,rooh and body must be placed at their exact places)

4) Quran understanding(as its the guidance for intellectuals)

Marifat of Self - Marifat of God

Submitted by Anonymous on Sat, 05/09/2015 - 05:08


1)Is marifat of self means having knowledge of soul that at which level it stands and recognition of sins affecting on soul and good attributes also?

Does this knowledge leads to God?

how can we start plz help in this regard?

2)Is every emotion an indication of something missing in soul? laziness is the part of which kind of soul? How do we eliminate it?

Disobeying Father Due To His Behavior & Swearing Allah

Submitted by Anonymous on Tue, 04/28/2015 - 14:26


i am here to ask something that kept bothering me for about a month now. my father was swearing Allah for he was mad over something he went on and on and on, it happened for the third time last month and since then i lost all respect i had for him.

i just wanted to know if this kind of behavior is right? i tried but i just cant forget what he did.

please help me here.

Wife's Family Dishonored Husband

Submitted by Anonymous on Fri, 04/03/2015 - 00:05

In Nikkah both husband and wife swore to honour each other, and protect their izzah. I as muslim man have both defended her izzah and If she gets disrespect i stand for her izzah as a Farz and my duty. As she is my partner. Islam has taught me۔ Ask for forgivenes for Your actions humble۔pure heart And then be Friends Friends Family wife parents who ever only then you Get izzah,forgivenes and ny Allah And another muslim۔


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