You are here

Akhlaq & Irfan

Steps of Spiritual Journey

Submitted by Anonymous on Fri, 05/29/2015 - 11:46


According to Hadith,in which one Imam(as) said about rooh that its centre is brain.would that means aql or intellect in which a person is taught a right path by logic.and this nafs also takes guidance from it?

Is this sequence of getting knowledge for getting marifat of God right?

1)intellect use

2)fitrat and marifat e nafs and comparison between the two.

3)Adal (nafs,rooh and body must be placed at their exact places)

4) Quran understanding(as its the guidance for intellectuals)

Marifat of Self - Marifat of God

Submitted by Anonymous on Sat, 05/09/2015 - 05:08


1)Is marifat of self means having knowledge of soul that at which level it stands and recognition of sins affecting on soul and good attributes also?

Does this knowledge leads to God?

how can we start plz help in this regard?

2)Is every emotion an indication of something missing in soul? laziness is the part of which kind of soul? How do we eliminate it?

Disobeying Father Due To His Behavior & Swearing Allah

Submitted by Anonymous on Tue, 04/28/2015 - 14:26


i am here to ask something that kept bothering me for about a month now. my father was swearing Allah for he was mad over something he went on and on and on, it happened for the third time last month and since then i lost all respect i had for him.

i just wanted to know if this kind of behavior is right? i tried but i just cant forget what he did.

please help me here.

Wife's Family Dishonored Husband

Submitted by Anonymous on Fri, 04/03/2015 - 00:05

In Nikkah both husband and wife swore to honour each other, and protect their izzah. I as muslim man have both defended her izzah and If she gets disrespect i stand for her izzah as a Farz and my duty. As she is my partner. Islam has taught me۔ Ask for forgivenes for Your actions humble۔pure heart And then be Friends Friends Family wife parents who ever only then you Get izzah,forgivenes and ny Allah And another muslim۔

Relationship Or Divorce

Submitted by Anonymous on Fri, 03/13/2015 - 07:41


If a wife is not happy in her matrimonial home and seeks divorce from husband, what should she do if husband refuses to give divorce. There is No Love or Trust in this relationship but it is only sustained for children's sake. In this case wouldn't it be better to break the relationship rather than live in this condition? But the point to be noted is that husband refuses to give the rights of custody to the wife including their maintenance and alimony.

Please advice. Thank you.

Contact With Namehram Males..

Submitted by Anonymous on Thu, 02/26/2015 - 17:17

Salam alaikum.

Me and my husband is having a dispute. Because of being in contact with old friends in highschool, we plan to have a class get together ,and exchanging messages and calls, specilally with male Namehram classmates makes my husband real angry.

I hope u can advice for me the best thing to do.

Unofficial/Gifted Money

Submitted by Anonymous on Sun, 02/22/2015 - 17:20

Am working in a bank where gift money is not allowed. Knowing this I refused to accept when my customer gave me cash gift but he kept on insisting stating that I am giving as personally. He mention that this money is from him as personal and no link to bank He further said that I don't have financial advisor and since he receive financial advise from me he is so glad and do not find any banker that shows much concern with their customers. He further said that he do not seek any favor of any kind and ask to pls. Accept as personal gift.

My Partner's 1st Wife Not Accepting Me As His 2nd Wife

Submitted by Anonymous on Mon, 02/16/2015 - 11:28


I was unhappy in my marriage as my ex-husband was abusive towards me and restrained me to do things.

I was seeing a married man in which my marriage broke up , I am islamically divorced .

He is willing to make me his second wife but his wife is refusing . We both have been in deep zinna which we both know is not permissable in our religion.Only because He has promised me InShaAllah he will do the right thing ,but his Mrs is a new muslim and they have three children.

My Behavior With My Husband

Submitted by Anonymous on Wed, 02/11/2015 - 19:19

Assalam o alaikum...

I want to ask tht how I react about my husband's behaviour against me in our private relation.I get married 3 months before....iits my second marriage n my husband's too. when I get married before three months we were in Pakistan at tht time after my documentation im here in saudia with my husband.


Subscribe to RSS - Akhlaq & Irfan