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Counsel: Humble

Submitted by Anonymous on Wed, 04/18/2018 - 09:13

how can i be humble. i don't know why i get irritated easily. whether it's my short temper or my anxiety but now a days i am being very rude to all even with my family as well. more rude than ever and I feel guilty after being rude to people and want to apologise as well but I don't do except to my mother. doesn't Allah loves me because I have heard Allah give this gift of humility to those he loves. why can't i say sorry to people despite i want to ? despite of feeling guilty to cry? i try to offer all 5 time salah sometimes I miss but still I try.

Sile Rahem

Submitted by Anonymous on Sun, 04/15/2018 - 14:16

My nephew stole money from my son. The way we found out is my husband took out the cctv footage and call records of everyone we were suspicious of. Because of this my sister is angry with me and will not speak with me. In the past we had very good relations. I am not certain what to do because my husband doesnt want me to talk to my sister anymore. Please guide me.

Marriage (Advice)

Submitted by Anonymous on Tue, 04/10/2018 - 19:56

Aslaam Alaikum I have received wedding proposal. We have now found that the guy has a child which was without being married. The guy has said now he has changed and was misled by friends. He says that he has now changed completely and has become religious and amended his ways. Please advise if this person should be given a chance knowing that he says he has now changed and ammended his ways. Please advise futher advice from religious scholars of what should be done. Jazakallah khair

Counsel: Talk to parents

Submitted by Anonymous on Mon, 04/09/2018 - 22:33

A.o.a i want to ask that i try to calm myself infront of my parents but most of the time when talking to them i starts to scream at them like if they have bring me any juice without straw i would start screaming on them or if they have put my books and forgotten where they have put them i would start screaming at them i cant control my self at that time i know that its a big sin to scream on our parents but i cant control myself when i am angry please tell me how can i control myself when talking to my parents.

Adultery

Submitted by Anonymous on Fri, 04/06/2018 - 12:52

I am a married man with children, I have committed Zina. Now I am completely ashamed and frustrated what to do, I am very much ashamed want to end my life. What should I do

Mother-in-law/Wife

Submitted by Anonymous on Wed, 03/07/2018 - 10:41

In a dispute between mother and wife, if its clear that mother is not willing to see his son and daughter in law happy. And is involved in conspiracies to make apart both husband and wife, what should a son do? Islam clearly describes the respect and honour of a mother to his son and Islam also says that in two women his mother and wife son should follow his mother in any case. But if it all happens due to the mother, and mother tries to create disputes between husband and wife, what should be the reaction of a son should be to his mother?

Self-Control

Submitted by Anonymous on Mon, 03/05/2018 - 11:35

How do I, a guy of 21 years of age supposed to control his sexual desires? These desires have affected my studies, my prayers, my other relationships. My parents don't have the means to support me if I get married, I am currently a student. Fasting has not helped me. I have been doing sins related to sexual desires for the past 6 year, I have not committed zinah but I fear that I won't be able to control my self in the near future.....

Ghibah/Backbiting

Submitted by Anonymous on Sun, 03/04/2018 - 14:26

Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullah. Im a beginner at practicing Islam. I made a mistake which I shouldn't have done. Doing ghibah about any brother / sister in Islam is a grave sin and specially, mostly women would be in Jahannam for doing it. Now, there are two or three people about whom I couldn't stop myself from saying things which are not appropriate due to hatred and the most problem is theyre males for which its not really possible for me to ask their forgiveness.

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