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Appropriate Interaction

Submitted by Anonymous on Sun, 06/12/2016 - 18:28

In The Name Of Allah(SWT) The Most Kind The Most Merciful

Assalamu Alaykum

My question is that i have read that a person should stand up while his father is standing.Does this rule apply to the mother as well and is it obligatory or recommended.

Also if my father or mother pass through the living room several times must i stand up all the time and if i know that they were ok with me not standing up when they are standing do i still have to stand up.

Furthermore if my parents just come and stand but do not want to sit must i be standing for them.

Treatise of Rights

Submitted by Anonymous on Fri, 06/10/2016 - 12:53

Assalamu Alaykum

I have read that in Risalatul Huqooq there is a right of companion.Now is it recommended to do those actions mentioned there or is it wajib and if i dont do those things have i commited a sin.

Also if you lie to someone should seek their forgiveness

Forgiveness for Lying Several Times

Submitted by Anonymous on Sat, 05/14/2016 - 12:23
Actually i had a girlfriend.but after breakup i found a letter of another boy written" the days spent with you were lovely,please meet me once".reading these words i became sure that she was cheating me.she was happy after breakup.so i decided to write a letter to her mentioning that i know everything she did to me an also mentioning that dont be in a wrong intention that u succeeded in cheating me.In the letter i mentioned that i saw u with a boy near your college and after reading the letter from your bag i became sure that you was cheating me.

Supporting Parents

Submitted by Anonymous on Fri, 04/22/2016 - 19:23

I have an issue that keeps surfacing frequently and cause stress in life. My wife always gave me hard time whenever I supported my parents financially. My parents then migrated to US and started living with my widow sister but I kept on supporting them financially till recently. From the start I wanted my wife to participate in this support but she was not on board. Given no choice, I kept supporting them while hiding this from my wife. She found out eventually and resulted in huge fight.

Mother's Re-Marriage

Submitted by Anonymous on Sat, 12/19/2015 - 17:20

Salam Aleikum,

if a mother (almost 50) wants to marry a man, who is not religious and her two sons in their 20's who live in her house and are completely opposed to her marrying, can they cut relations with their mother?

P.S. she is already well off and does not need financial support

Technology Ethics

Submitted by Anonymous on Thu, 12/17/2015 - 06:44

if we use infra red/laser technology to view inside graves of imams is it considered sin? just wondering about impact of technology ethics in islam

Unwanted attractions

Submitted by Anonymous on Wed, 12/09/2015 - 12:41

Salaam alaikum,

If a Muslim youth finds himself experiencing unwanted attractions to the same gender, yet he still seeks to live a halal life and not indulge in a sinful lifestyle what advice can you give to lessen these attractions?

People today say "you can't change what you are attracted to", but surely this is a situation that followers of the Ahlulbayt (as) must have dealt with in the past?

Any specific dua, or changes in habits, or areas of personal development that you can suggest - any advice from Allah SWT and the Ahlulbayt (as) on this issue?

Tawbah

Submitted by Anonymous on Mon, 12/07/2015 - 13:51

Salam alaykum,

I wanted to ask about repenting and asking for forgiveness. If I keep repeating the same sin over and over and every time in commit that sin I repent and pray for forgiveness but then shaytan makes me do it again but this time I want to repent for real, will Allah forgive me? Even though I've asked for forgiveness for the same sin so many times

Care For Parents

Submitted by Anonymous on Mon, 11/23/2015 - 17:25

My husbands parents live in Pakistan. My husband and I live in the UK. My husband would like to call his father, step mother and younger brother to live with us. I do not feel comfortable with this.

My husband says it is his obligation to care for his parents which I agree but does this mean they live with us? Please advise?

Is it obligatory for a son to invite his parents and younger brother to live with him when his wife does not wish for this to happen?

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