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Sile rahem

Submitted by Anonymous on Wed, 11/08/2017 - 02:25

Aslam alaikum

I am married. My cousin brother wants to meet me along with his wife. But in my heart I just don't feel like meeting them because:

1. They are hasid(jealous) 2. They make fun of me 3. They need favour from me 4.

I'm too busy with parenting Is it ok if I don't meet them? Will Allah be upset with me.

Displeasing Parents

Submitted by Anonymous on Sat, 07/02/2016 - 13:38


Assalamu Alaykum My question is that if a person disobayes, displeases, angers or does something that he feels would anger his parents, does it mean that now Allah will not forgive him and his deeds will not be accepted.

Appropriate Interaction

Submitted by Anonymous on Sun, 06/12/2016 - 18:28

In The Name Of Allah(SWT) The Most Kind The Most Merciful

Assalamu Alaykum

My question is that i have read that a person should stand up while his father is standing.Does this rule apply to the mother as well and is it obligatory or recommended.

Also if my father or mother pass through the living room several times must i stand up all the time and if i know that they were ok with me not standing up when they are standing do i still have to stand up.

Furthermore if my parents just come and stand but do not want to sit must i be standing for them.

Treatise of Rights

Submitted by Anonymous on Fri, 06/10/2016 - 12:53

Assalamu Alaykum

I have read that in Risalatul Huqooq there is a right of companion.Now is it recommended to do those actions mentioned there or is it wajib and if i dont do those things have i commited a sin.

Also if you lie to someone should seek their forgiveness

Forgiveness for Lying Several Times

Submitted by Anonymous on Sat, 05/14/2016 - 12:23
Actually i had a girlfriend.but after breakup i found a letter of another boy written" the days spent with you were lovely,please meet me once".reading these words i became sure that she was cheating me.she was happy after i decided to write a letter to her mentioning that i know everything she did to me an also mentioning that dont be in a wrong intention that u succeeded in cheating me.In the letter i mentioned that i saw u with a boy near your college and after reading the letter from your bag i became sure that you was cheating me.

Exposing Reality of Bad Person

Submitted by Anonymous on Sun, 04/24/2016 - 08:55

My father in law is living with us.our house upper story is given on rent to an army family.the lady of the house is a good friend of mine.My father in law has done some wrong things in the past regarding maids of the house.My mother in law passed away a year back.My friend and her husband doubted us that we are not good to him.I told her that I am fulfilling all my duties but he is angry with me and my husband as we do not allow him to keep a full time maid.Then I told her some issues of the past we faced.

Supporting Parents

Submitted by Anonymous on Fri, 04/22/2016 - 19:23

I have an issue that keeps surfacing frequently and cause stress in life. My wife always gave me hard time whenever I supported my parents financially. My parents then migrated to US and started living with my widow sister but I kept on supporting them financially till recently. From the start I wanted my wife to participate in this support but she was not on board. Given no choice, I kept supporting them while hiding this from my wife. She found out eventually and resulted in huge fight.

Mother's Re-Marriage

Submitted by Anonymous on Sat, 12/19/2015 - 17:20

Salam Aleikum,

if a mother (almost 50) wants to marry a man, who is not religious and her two sons in their 20's who live in her house and are completely opposed to her marrying, can they cut relations with their mother?

P.S. she is already well off and does not need financial support


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